woMan wanted to be....

When she walks away from you mad===[ Follow her] When she stares at your lips===[
Kiss her ] When she pushes you or hits you===[ Grab her and do not let go ] When
she starts cursing at you===[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ] When she is quiet===[ Ask her what is wrong] When she ignores you===[ Give her your attention ] When she pulls away==[ Pull her back ] When you see her at her worst===[ Tell her she is beautiful ] When you see her start crying==[Just hold her and do not say a word ] When you see her walking==[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ] When she is scared===[ Protect her ] When she lays her head on your shoulder===[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ] When she steals your favorite hat==[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night] When she teases you===[ Tease her back and make her laugh ] When she does not answer for a long time===[ reassure her that everything is okay ] When she looks at you with doubt==[ Back yourself up with the TRUTH ] When she says that she likes you==[ she really does more than you could understand ] When she grabs at your hands===[ Hold hers and play with her fingers ] When she bumps into you===[ bump into her back and make her laugh ] When she tells you a secret===[ keep it safe and untold ] When she looks at you in your eyes===[ don’t look away until she does ] WHEN SHE MISSES YOU===[ SHES HURTING INSIDE] When you break her heart===[ the pain NEVER really goes away ] When she says its over===[ she STILL wants you to be hers ] Stay on the phone with her even if she is not saying anything - DON'T let her have the last word -always call her when you know somethings wrong -Pretty and beautiful is so much better than calling her hot. - Say you love her more than she could ever love you - Argue that she is the best girl ever - When she's mad hug her tight and do not let go - When she says she is okay do not believe it, talk with her - because 10 yrs later she will remember you - Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her - Call her before you sleep and after you wake up - Treat her like she is all that matters to you - Tease her and let her tease you back -Stay up all night with her when she's sick - Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid - Give her the world - Let her wear your clothes - When she's bored and sad, hang out with her - Let her know she is important - Kiss her in the pouring rain - When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;"Who is ass am I kicking today baby?"

brokEn pieCE

1 Heartbreak. 2 Eyes crying. 3 Words never said again. 4 Hands that won't be held. 5 Mornings I'll pass him in the halls. 6 Love notes ripped and torn. 7 Days a week you'll think of him. 8 Sad songs at night before you go to sleep. 9 Wishes that never came true. 10 Years before he realizes that it has always been you.
Mathematically loving someone is not as easy as simple algebra. You have to love infinitely without limits. But learning to let go someone you love is harder. Because the cure cannot be derived and simply does not exist.
It's funny how sometimes you've been doing everything to get out of one place and When you've found the time to leave, it's when you've also found a reason to stay.
Love and friendship met one day. love asked, "why do you exist?" friendship answered, "to put a smile where you leave tears." Then love asked again, "Well, if that's what you do, how come there are still many people crying?" friendship said, "it''s my fault. Instead of doing my job, i sometimes end up doing yours."
Never say that someone completes you. We have to feel whole even when we are by ourselves, for needing a certain someone is not love but dependency. Wanting a person to become part of your life is the best reason for having them. And you can only want when you know you have enough. So rather than search for someone who will complete you, wait for the person who will complement your completeness.
It's quite ironic that in life, the person that brings out the best in you and the one that makes you strong is actually your weakness..
When something is over, it's over. It can never start again. When it's broken you can never put back the pieces. Life is not the way you want it to be. When you that some one's hurting you so much, just stop. We know that it hurts a lot, but you must learn to let go things. Don't push yourself too hard. Because we all know, that in every ending, there's such a thing that we call the beginning..
Sometimes, fate has a cruel way of putting things together. Maybe it's better if people just give up when there's no point in fighting for something anymore. When the ship has finally sailed, only a fool would go after when it's already miles away.But sometimes, it's a lot better to be a fool to go after what we want and need, rather than to regret everything in the end because we never even tried..

Misunderstanding!

Misunderstanding is the very common problem. It happens every single day of our life, in business, relationships with the family either in the friendship! Dictionary defines it “lack of comprehension: a failure to understand or interpret something correctly”. I might say, if the two party is encountered this misunderstanding thing he/she will do their part to fix their problem. But, what if the two believed that, they are right? What will happen?
Now my friends are having this problem. It’s hard on my part because I know them all. They are my friends. Not just friends but they are true friends to me; I know the feel the same. Back to the issue…Well I am trying to help them. I am giving my opinion about the scenario. But then it seems they have their different views of reactions. Talking about the issue again and again! Only problem there is, they do not have open-communication. Communication is very important for them to understand their sides, Right? How will they know whose side is right if they will not speak up? Common guys stand on your feet! Do not be afraid to speak what is on your heart! Do not talk back stub, you are not fair with the other part! Moral lesson I got with this problem is, if they really treat friends with one another. They will fix this mess for the sake of the friendship! This is just a simple case. Yet, their making this complicated. To all my friends you know who you are guys! Please do not be childlike! You are old enough to act this way! Fix the problem if you still care about the friendship we have. You all knew me; I value our friendship so much. Every moment I spent with the group is very precious. I treasured them much! I do expect that you guy will realizes that!

A very Special love

I wanted to see the movie, a very Special love. I am a loyal fun of John Lloyd, I found him very cute. There is a lot of good feedback I heard about the movie. Although this is the first movie of Sarah, but then she act good! She proved that she can also act aside from singing.
Actually last week I and my two gals planned to watch the movie. But then it was postpone because of some important matters. We still don not know if our plans will turn as it can be. Or maybe there is no such way to watch the movie with them.
Sad because one of my friends "Jeane Lyn" already watched the movie. She did not bother to tell us that she is going to watched it. According to her she always wanted to watch movie by herself rather than to be with us. There was no hassle, no one to explain things to. Just by her! This is very synonymous with me. I had issues about watching movies alone in fact I cannot watch films by myself. I had rather ask a friend and treat her rather than watching it by myself! Or the best way to watch the film is waiting at next year. It will be play on TV I am sure. So sad!!!

fine w/ me

Tuesday, around 8:45 p.m. he, text me asking how was my day? I quickly reply “its okay, how about you?” I miss him. I do, not saw him the whole day in school; no matter how I tried still I cannot find him anywhere. My friends starting to got vexed w/ me because my mouth keeps on uttering his name. I have the nothing to do w/ that because no matter how I tried I cannot help but telling what I’ve fell. He is so special to me! Back on the text.
He replied “I’m not okay grace. Someone screw me up! I wish I would vanished right now!” I was shock w/ the reply. I asked him “why? Who?” then he told me the whole thing. He was in the net, playing games. Then he opened his "friendster" account, for old time sick He visited the account of his ex-girlfriend. Right then he saw something that make him jealous and remember her again! You know reading this baggage of his past really makes me envious! I wish I was the girl he loved! I really think that envy thing right there and then! I LIKE HIM! I taught he was got over his past. But I was wrong. All this time he still cared for that bullshit girl! It really hurts a lot! I wanted to cry. I comfort him through text telling him that he doesn’t deserve her, sooner or later you will find a girl that will love you and vice versa etc.
It’s clear as crystal clear that he doesn’t feel something special in me, like what I feel towards in him. Wish he knows what I feel right now.

He is always on my mind

Good afternoon everyone. Well I am here in front of the computer typing what is working on my mind now. Okay I just want to confess these thinking that bothering me often. It is really kind an annoying. How would I say this? I have a friend; no he is not really a friend because we do not talk in person. But we have a communication. We rarely see each other somewhere (I would not give you a hint guys I am pretty sure you know him.)I am kind a started to like him. Guys, I do like him. I do not know what is on him. But I think him every minute it's weird. Stop me! I still love my ex-boyfriend.
Anyway we are text mates. I just want somebody to get my attention that time. I wanted to get over my ex-boyfriend. My friend Sheena gave me His number since I told her I want a text mate. She told me also her guy friend is looking also for a text mate. According to her we have the same problem that is “wanted to get over our past Right there and then we text each other. Share problems and giving ideas how to move on. Funny we are solving our own problem!

do I?

Do I? Let me share to you the whole story about the “looking” a like thing. Priscilla Navidad is a 17-year-old beauty queen from Davao. She is a hearing-impaired person who communicates through lip reading. I do not know here since then. But she is known for a reason that, she reign a crown for a Ms. Teen Davao. Luckily, she joined the PBB Teen Edition plus of ABS-CBN’s reality show. Right then, my friend Jean said I really look like Priscilla. My reaction for that comment is “shut up jean!? Who’s Priscilla, anyway? Oh I see, one contestant of PBB right? I do not think so. I do not look like her. Although she, is deaf but she is sexy and pretty. Unlike me!” Weeks past I already forgot that issue thing. But while waiting near a road for a tricycle the man said “OH I thought you are Priscilla! I am watching you behind.” I do have this manner that every time I am compared to other I get mad. So I said to that guy, “Do you want me to slap you? If you do, not then stop comparing me to that Priscilla!” The third time I heard about this stuff is when we ride a jeep. It happens that the driver of the jeep is really a cool man. My two gals, changing a joke to the driver. Although I did not join the conversation but, I laughed with them. Then the driver said, look the girl in apple green shirt looks like Priscilla. My friends laugh; I do not know. I did not feel any hatred to the driver. Instead I said “Thank you.” And give him a sweet smile. Maybe I found sincerity in his words. Last week the designer of our uniform, I do not know his maybe her name.He is a gay anyway. He said “oh girl, you are like Priscilla”Again I taught I am over this issue. But I am wrong. The gay is friendly to me. So I do not have guts to shut up his mouth. In fact I know he just want to say what is in his mind. “Do I? If that so, then thanks!” Then we laughed. I am now thinking who will be the next person who would say I look like a celebrity? What if Priscilla knows that I look like her, would she be happy or mad? Me? I just do not know what to feel every time I am compared to her.
Guys do, I look like her? Please leave a comment....

I want him back

Three months past when we had our breakup. Do I have to tell this? Okay I was the one who started the idea. Anyway it happened and I do not have an anything to do with that thing. “So what is the issue her grace?” Always ask myself. I think I am a lunatic person now. Cry, laugh and smile to ease the pain. What? Yes I did and do that every time I remember my stupidity of letting go. Okay, I missed him! I wish I still have my boyfriend until now. So what if I do not have him? Really is that a big deal? Yes, of course, it is! Oh my! Cannot help thinking him! What I supposed to do? “Well find someone to replace him that is a very brilliant idea to forget him” My brain said. But my heart answer, laughing, “If only that is easy to do” Yeah it’s the sad thing. So what I am supposed to do? “Nothing, just wait the right time, everything will be okay grace. Everything will turn to be okay”. As what myself telling me. But, but it’s not easy to sit, forget and wait at the right time.

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"Why A Man Gets 'Scared Away'

"Why A Man Gets 'Scared Away' When You Try To Get Him To Commit For The Long-Term- And What To Do About It”

I would like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them... Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just did not think that same level of "connection" you felt? You were attracted to him, but he just was not into you the same way you were into him? In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside; you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he did not want to connect truly with you. Another one... Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainable disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen? Of coarse, the worst part was not that it happened, but that you KNEW you should not have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway. And finally: Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I am talking about six months, 12 months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after? You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving further AWAY from you. I am guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like: "He's just a jerk, forget about him". Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he is making or what he will be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you. And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it. In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I will bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk). In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the thinking that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently... Unfortunately, the bad news is that you are probably right. Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how you are the situation. You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...

mY oJT

It is was months ago, when I finished my oJT @NCCC-ICT main office together w/ my two friends.Yet, it always coming back to my mind what happened.It’s really fun and memorable for me.Yes, it is not to mention the staff who was very kind to me.ummm also with my two buddies>Let me, introduce them, Sir Allain, the supervisor, very cool guy who keeps on smiling whenever he is in good mood!.Sir jimboy, the man who’ve i do not understand.i do not know w? him but he is cool, hehehe.Sir ritChie, this guy was my crush, heheheh.You know what before time ago, ummm the time when we are not yet in the office.Sir ritchie, is called the neird,yah yah because he have his own world.The people seldom see Him smilling.But, when we become friends, he keep on talking na.Hehehe I assure you, guys if you meet him, you would like him.Sir jev, the harsh guy!.I do not know with Him.But His sweet and sincere to His words.Sir Bryan,I love this man.oooopPPs he is married already.He really love His wife.there are many reasons why I love sir bryan, so much.Not to mention he likes me.yah he does hahaha>last but not the least Sir Jojo, the very cute guy especially when smiling on me.my heart keep on beating just kidding! Well really this man is such a generous and a very practical person.he is admitting his mistake.that’s why i do like Him as a Man.Enough with those guy around me, during my on-job training.But really I learned a lot.Those happy moments with them are really precious to me.

I am looking foreword to see those guy again.

Set him free

Last April 4, I decided to break up with my boyfriend. After our one year anniversary last March 25 I decided to quit. The love is still their but; the commitment is not in the relationship anymore. I go out with another man. I do not know with my ex-boyfriend since we are in a long distance relationship. But I have women instinct that he never go out with other girls because I know how much he loves me. That is made my ego boast! I go out with someone, for just a friendly date? Okay I admit at first, of coarse I like the guy! My ex-boyfriend keeps on courting me, asking me to fix our ended affair. I just set Him aside because somehow I know he is still there for me whatever happens. Days, weeks and months past my date and I decided to be friends, since we have different views in life. I cannot breathe whenever He is around. I always got pressure whenever He asked me, what to eat, where to go? Every time I am with Him, I just cannot be me. I do not know. I cannot express what I wanted to say every time I am vexed with him. I always feel discontentment, I am not happy at all. I tried to be happy whenever His is around. .He do not know all this kind a hiding myself. Anyway he is a good person. It is just that only KELVIN REY PALMYRA makes me feel happy! He always makes me as the real GRACE all the time. With my boyfriend I easily express whatever in my minds. If I am angry I can shout at him. I can say my no and Yes! See the difference when I am with my date and with my boyfriend? So after the realization and all the craziness I had been. I text my boyfriend, ops I forgot my ex-boyfriend! What a sad love life I had a now. I asked his forgiveness and I confessed my sins and lies. I told Him what happened about me and my date. Of coarse he is really mad at me! I remember He cried that time he call me on the phone. Asking why I did that bullshit thing! Yes that bullshit! That was my entire fault. I am so stupid to let the man who I know, from the very start is the one who makes me HAPPY! I courted Him; yes I am the one who courted Him this time. Anyway courting a guy, whom you know deserve to be courted, is not a big deal. I just did what I think was right. I gave Him time to think. But He chooses to leave me now. I respect the decisions even though my happiness relies on that. I cry, cry and cry that night. Setting him free means I do not owe Him no more. He deserves someone else. How pathetic my life is!